See No Evil

Pornography impairs one’s ability to enjoy a normal emotional, romantic, and even spiritual relationship with a person of the opposite sex. Those who experiment with it and allow themselves to remain caught in its trap will find that it will destroy them, degrading their minds, hearts, and spirits. The Internet can be a wonderful tool and resource for information, but caution must be exercised in order to protect families and individuals from the potential dangers that are present online. Those views may lead to inappropriate behaviors. Troubled teen program believes that one of the many symptoms of a troubled teen is the excessive indulgence in pornography. So, what can parents do? We need to discuss with our youth the sacred nature of human intimacy and help them understand and bridle the feelings associated with that intimacy. The addiction is established when a person becomes dependent on the "rush" of chemicals the body creates when one views pornography therefore, he or she learns to depend on this activity to escape from or cope with life's challenges and emotional stressors like hurt, anger, boredom, loneliness, or fatigue. We may inadvertently convey this confusing message: "Sexual thoughts and feelings are bad, sinful, and wrong - save them for someone you love." Teens who receive only negative messages about sexuality may conclude, "Since sexual feelings or urges are bad, and I feel them very strongly, I too must be bad." This kind of thinking can result in feelings of low self-worth, unworthiness, and shame. Family members must communicate well if they are to build and maintain strong family relationships. As we talk to our teens about the sacred nature of our bodies and procreation, we'll be able to help them understand and avoid the emotional, physical or even spiritual dangers of pornography. One study points out that pornography may have a direct relationship to sex crimes. This view leads people to see the body as an object rather than an essential part of a person's soul. Accepting this view can lead to near worship of the "perfect body" and, when one doesn't match up, to self-loathing. Let us persevere our efforts to work with local groups and youth organizations to establish a visible relationship with other like-minded citizens, and seek to preserve our quality of life by encouraging steps against such material.

About The Author:

Marcus Garret myteenmarcus@gmail.com www.anasazi.org Anasazi residential treatment center utilizes a troubled teen program in place of youth teen boot camp

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